Surfing the Internet it’s easy to get caught by advertising banners: “Meet Odessa girls online!” Dating Odessa girls became as popular as Asian dating. Thanks to that, many men happened to explore the part of the world where they weren’t supposed to be: the south of Ukraine. At first glance, it is a paradise as there are many beaches, model-looking girls, and the climate is milder than in the rest of Ukraine. But what’s reality like? We’ll try to analyze in this article.
Lots of men travellers already understood that meeting the girls simply in local nightclubs or on Facebook is easier and cheaper than through the agencies. But others still think it isn’t safe while the agency managers at least know the girls personally.
Where is the truth then? The girls in nightclubs surely can be tricky, but they are not “professional daters” and at least you see whether she has a local boyfriend or there is a possibility she’s single. If a girl came with her own company and is obviously ashamed to hang out with you, it either means she’s too short-minded for dating a foreigner or there is someone she likes in her company. Both variants aren’t good for you. On another hand, if she’s too much friendly, welcoming and inviting with you, be very careful and watch out. Try to notice whether she wants the most expensive drinks, food, and how much she wants for her taxi to get home. If all these amounts are big, then it’s just the beginning and she is going to use you for materialistic reasons. Check immediately whether she gave you her own phone number or just the wrong one.
As to the category of sincere girls, they can be either too conservative for getting closer soon enough, or too accessible plus hard-drinkers. Chose depending on your wants and goals. Some guys are searching for a quick fling (but why going so far for that?), others need a wife. Both types are reporting about good chances to meet a real girl by themselves; they continued this new communication quite successfully. Some fraud is reported too but nothing too criminal.
Now let’s see what can be said about the marriage agencies in Odessa. They charge you for every meeting they arrange for you. Then you pay for the translator’s service as all girls pretend they don’t speak any English. There’s no language barrier issue noticed in the nightclubs. All young ladies there speak at least basic English. Another bad sign is that a girl from the agency always has only 2-3 spare hours to spend with you. Maybe she’s too busy with her husband or a lover for the rest of the time? You never know. She doesn’t give you her phone number (the language issue again) and you’re always communicating with an interpreter. This last one is also entertaining you with talks during long breaks of silence – your lady doesn’t put any efforts into finding the topics for your conversation. But she perfectly manages to inform you that she came from a faraway village and you should cover her transport expenses, then she wants to learn some English and you have to pay for the courses, and finally, one of her parents is very sick so it would be very gallant of you to help out with that.
If you see any of those actions, just escape. Of course, there is a human part in every scammer so you can try talking with a girl frankly. Tell her you see all the game she leads but you’re not angry, you just want to hear her final decision. If she doesn’t value you as a man or at least as a person, you won’t waste your time anymore. Maybe she likes you and just has to follow the typical scheme. When she understands that she can gain much more being sincere with you, she may re-consider her behaviour and the only side that loses will be the agency.
That’s life and scenarios can be really different but we described the most frequent ones. Enjoy your time by the sea in sunny Odessa and we’re wishing you to meet your true love there (or at least a great adventure). After all, it’s not impossible.
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